STEP 1 – Start texting

How do you choose a woman?

First, texting only one woman may not work out. She may not be eager to start a conversation with you or already be interested in someone else. Knowing this, firstlychoose girls to text to. Later youʼll know by whom you are charmed the most and continue chatting or even dating her.

What are the criteria?

Do NOT only think about the appearance. Yes, you should be attracted by the way the woman looks. But this NOT is the most important key to a successful relationship. If you have nothing in common, the chances she will be interested in you are low. Remember, hundreds of men like you may text her every day.

Step 1 – Start texting

STEP 2 – Don’t ruin her first impression

Youʼve set your mind on women. Your main goal now is to text her and establish the right atmosphere. This is an extremely important step. Donʼt mess it up! Note the mistakes that will drive her mad:

Trivial greeting – “Hiiiiiii”, “Yo!”, “Howdy-doody!” are just a couple of examples of how you should not start a conversation with the women. Do you really believe these lines help start an easy and natural conversation? Most of the women will be annoyed and not interested in texting you back.

Being bossy – “Hello beautiful. We are meeting tomorrow. What time will you be free?” Maybe thereʼs a small percentage of women who will agree to go out. In most cases, you wonʼt get a positive reply. Calm down a bit and choose less assertive tactics.

Grammatical mistakes – Women are picky when it comes to grammar. Thereʼs a big chance that one day she wonʼt answer you anymore if you continue making grave mistakes. Take the time to double-read your messages before sending them.

STEP 2 – DON’T RUIN HER FIRST IMPRESSION

STEP 3 – Be an interesting conversationalist

Another important thing – the woman should feel comfortable while texting you. On the dating websites, they expect to find love and feel safe around the person they like. Establish a pleasant and relaxed atmosphere of communication. Follow these rules and she will be happy to wait for your next reply:

Stay positive - Fill the conversation with light humor and optimism. Use emoji to show your positive attitude. Just don't overdo

Step 3 – Be an interesting conversationalist

STEP 4 – Don’t scare
her away

Some men get carried away by the desire to attract a woman's attention. This ends with her losing interest, getting annoyed, and ultimately not wanting to continue the conversation. Avoid these mistakes at all costs:

Triple texting - She doesnʼt instantly answer you and you text her again. And again… Please keep it together! Women donʼt like bothersome men. Sheʼll answer you as soon as sheʼs free.

Rushing things - Remember to keep it slow, otherwise, she may think that you are intrusive. It's better not to ask her to go out if you are texting only for a couple of days. Because youʼll probably not going to like the answer.

STEP 4 – DON’T SCARE HER AWAY

STEP 5 – Have a
successful date

Online dating is one thing; real-life communication is another. The first date is an exciting experience for both sides. Create the right atmosphere to make it successful. Take these tips seriously and maximize your chances of getting a second date:

Respect her personal boundaries – A woman may feel nervous or uncomfortable on the first date. Don't try to take her hand or hug her. She may regard this as an attempt to violate her personal space and get scared. Doesnʼt sound like a beginning of a love story, right?

Find a place to talk - Conversation is the best chance to get to know each other. Bars or even movie theatres might not be the best idea for the first date. Choose a cozy place (both not overcrowded or deserted) where you can hear each other talking.

STEP 5 – HAVE A SUCCESSFUL DATE

STEP 6 – Say no to being intrusive

One date together doesnʼt equal a relationship. Think about the time youʼve spent together. Did you like it? Did she seem to like it?

If the answer is yes, congratulations! You have a chance for a happy future together. Now keep calm. Donʼt bombard her with messages. If you've exchanged numbers, you don't need to call her several times a day to find out how she's doing. If you are too persistent, the second date may not happen at all!

If the answer is yes, congratulations! You have a chance for a happy future together. Now keep calm. Donʼt bombard her with messages. If you've exchanged numbers, you don't need to call her several times a day to find out how she's doing. If you are too persistent, the second date may not happen at all!

STEP 6 – SAY NO TO BEING INTRUSIVE

STEP 7 – Build a
long-lasting relationship

Take an interest in the life of your soul mate. Listen with a genuine interest to her chatting about shopping and going out with friends. Talk about your ups and downs at work. Only constant and sincere communication will lead to a genuine connection between you two.

Choose a woman. If you have trust issues, learn to control your emotions. Even if you were abused, traumatized, or betrayed, never transfer the past to your current partner. You can rely on and learn to let it go.

If the answer is yes, congratulations! You have a chance for a happy future together. Now keep calm. Donʼt bombard her with messages. If you've exchanged numbers, you don't need to call her several times a day to find out how she's doing. If you are too persistent, the second date may not happen at all!

STEP 7 – BUILD A LONG-LASTING RELATIONSHIP